Hi everyone!

I'm back after my long hiatus. I hope you all had an amazing January.

Today I wanted to talk about slut shaming and gender inequalities because these two topics always get me extremely fired up. I consider myself a feminist, so both slut shaming and gender inequality make me very frustrated.

I wanted to talk about this today because today, a girl who is a somewhat distant friend of mine called me a slut. She was joking (I guess), but I am still angered when people use the term "slut" as a joking matter. I believe that her rude comment came from a place of insecurity within, and I'm not too bothered by her comment, but I'm really bothered by slut shaming as a whole. I've been trying to control my anger and not get angry over trivial things, but slut shaming is something that angers me all the time.

I'm frustrated that women are called derogatory terms because of their outfits or choices in life. Whatever someone does in his or her life is completely up to that person. Others have absolutely no right to judge that person for what he or she chooses to do. I really wish we humans would all just treat each other kindly and not make fun of others for their choices. However many people someone chooses to be intimate with and whatever someone chooses to wear should not be judged if that person is not harming anyone. In my case, what I was wearing was not affecting anyone harmfully, and I did nothing to deserve a rude comment.

I notice that people love to hate on women. I'm not saying that only women get bashed, but so many people just love to be rude and nasty to women. I always think of that one scene in Mean Girls when the teacher is talking to the female students about girl on girl hate. Girl on girl hate is seriously so sad and needs to come to an end. We should all empower one another, men and women, rather bring each other down.

All that being said, I told the people who I sit with at lunch about what had happened. Most of them were just like "eh whatever screw you and your feminist problems". But one girl decided to turn the negative situation into a positive one. She gave me a compliment, and it really made me feel a lot better. At the time, I probably didn't seem that thankful to her when she said it, but I truly was. I myself have been trying to compliment people more because I want to spread love and positivity to all the people around me. I hope all of you do the same as well.

Anyways, that is my blog post for today. The past few weeks have been crazy stressful for me, and I was struggling a lot with my schoolwork. However, I've made it through that stormy week (and I took the SAT!), and I'm going to be back making more blog posts. I'm thinking of starting a schedule and posting every Monday and Thursday.

Thank you all so much for reading; it really means a lot to me! Hope you are all having an amazing day.

Hi everyone!

I haven't posted on Whimsical Daydreamer for over a week! This is the longest break I've taken since a couple of months ago.

Before I randomly disappear for two weeks, I wanted to give you all a quick update.

I haven't been and won't be posting very much the next couple of weeks, as I've started school again, and life has been really busy! I'll probably be back in a couple of weeks, after I've finished taking the SAT or possibly even sooner.

Thank you all for reading! I'll be back soon. ^^

Hi everyone!

Today I'll be reviewing the Derma Trouble Spot Patch kit from AC Dew. I got this product quite a long time ago when I was in South Korea. It costs about 20 USD and comes with 24 patches and a gel that is supposed to brighten the skin. The patches come in different sizes for different sized blemishes.

I had a whitehead on my upper lip area that I tested the patch on. I put it on for around 10 hours. The next morning when I took the patch off, the white head came off. The patch did leave a little mark where the blemish was after I took it off.

I like this product, but it doesn't remove the spot with no scar left behind. I think it is better to use a patch like this rather than popping the pimple. Make sure you don't take the patch off prematurely because it won't be effective. It's also better to use the patches on pimples that have whiteheads, as it wouldn't be too effective with cysts.

Overall, I don't think I would repurchase this product, although I liked it. I didn't feel like the cream it came with was that effective, and for 24 patches, 20 dollars for this product is not the best deal. However, I do really like the patches and will probably try some other patches from other brands.

Thanks for reading!

Hi everyone!

Happy New Year's! I'm currently writing this blog post on New Year's Eve, but I'm going to schedule this post for tomorrow. I want this blog post to start off the New Year.

In this blog post, I want to reflect on 2015 and also plan for 2016. I didn't do this last year, so I wanted to do it this year.

2015 has been a pretty good year for me. I do think this year was a better year for me than 2014, which was not such a good year.

From the beginning of this year to the end, I feel like such a different person! Thinking back to the beginning of this year, it seems like so much time has gone by. At the beginning of the year, I wasn't feeling or performing my best. For a couple of months at the beginning of 2015, I was in this weird slump. My relationships with the people around me were not great, and my dad was in the hospital for a couple of weeks getting his gallbladder removed. I was constantly feeling unhappy and every day was just.. blah. I feel like the main reason for my slump was that I felt really lonely at the time. My closest (and really only) friend and I were growing distant, and I really depended on others for my happiness. I mentioned this in one of my previous blog posts from February of 2015. However, things started to change for me, and I didn't even notice these changes until a couple months ago. I think because of this I was forced to depend on myself and become my own best friend. I was so reliant on others for my happiness, but gradually, without even noticing, I started to develop a friendship with myself. We should all be our own best friends because, at the end of the day, we only have ourselves to depend on. I can't tell you exactly what I did to finally be able to depend on myself for happiness, but one thing I can say is to spend a lot of time by yourself reflecting. Treat yourself like you would your best friend. Hang out with yourself. Also, distancing myself from my cell phone has helped a lot. Sometimes I still feel extremely alone. In fact, I'm feeling a bit lonely right now, but, like all things, it will pass.

Another couple of things I wanted to talk about in this blog post are my travels this year. This year my sister graduated from graduate school so my family and I flew out to Philadelphia for her graduation, as some of you may have seen from my blog post about Philadelphia. I feel so proud of my sister, and I'm so thankful to have her as my sister. This year she spent a lot of time at home, and I really appreciate being able to spend time with her because I see her so rarely. I really trust my sister and believe she is someone that I can always confide to.

(I took a (long) break in between writing this blog post and now its the New Year! I was meaning to finish this yesterday but didn't get to it)

I also traveled to Europe this year with my family, which was the best trip I had ever been on. The countries in Europe that we visited were so breathtakingly beautiful, and more than anything, I love spending time with my family. On this trip I felt like we really bonded, as we were forced in a car for many hours, traveling from place to place. I'm so thankful I was able to go on this trip, but truly, I would be happy traveling to anywhere with my family. I definitely want to go back to Germany, Austria, and Czech Republic someday and relive the memories I had there.

Finally, a lot of my year has been dedicated to studying for the SAT. It may seem like a silly thing to include in my reflection of the past year, but the SAT was and still is a major "project"(and a huge source of stress!) I'm still working on. There are a lot of different and new people from different areas that I've met through my prep class. There are actually two students (both of whom went to my elementary school I believe) who are from Paris, which is really interesting to me. I definitely have wished to attend school in Paris before!

As for 2016...

One of my main resolutions is to live simply. I'm going to declutter my room and my life. I often get caught up with material items, and while I don't think owning material items is a bad thing, being obsessed with things is unhealthy. I'm still going to buy things, but I am going to declutter and rid my room of anything that I don't use or has no sentimental meaning to me. I also want to start eating more simply and cleanly.

Two of my resolutions are academic. I want to maintain good grades both this second semester of this school year and first semester of the next school year.I also want to reach my goal for the SAT. My "dream score" would be 2300+, but I won't be too disappointed if I fall a bit short.

Another one of my goals is to learn how to drive! I live in a city where, in order to get places, one needs to drive. I won't be able to reach this goal until the end of 2016, but I'm really excited.

Finally, this year I want to be completely dependent on myself only. I mentioned before in this blog post how I struggled with finding happiness from myself and relied on others for happiness. I feel once I'm able to completely rely on myself, I will be so much happier and won't take things personally. I believe in life, we shouldn't take anything personally, whether that be criticism or flattery. I am striving to achieve that and hopefully by the end of this year, I will be much more stable and happy. I've already improved so much from before, but I still have room for more improvement.

I highly recommend doing an introspection like I just did. Thank you all so much for reading, and I hope all of you have an amazing 2016.

That's the end to this post. Thanks for reading!